through EBONY's eyes

Everything through my eyes...relationships. work. life...
It’s hard to maintain my sanity and your happiness at the same time…something has to give

It’s hard to maintain my sanity and your happiness at the same time…something has to give

tarastileseats:this is my new core work out… it does really make you use your stomach muscles…its a little painful but with the breathing techniques it is relaxing and worth it.

Yoga for a STRONG Core.

New Video.

Happiness

What is it to you… today I was told “I was so busy trying to be perfect for you that I ignored my wants.” Being that I’m in love with him… I think he should go and do what he wants…

I never want someone to jepordize their happiness for me. The thing is that you only have one life to live you don’t want to go through a relationship with someone unhappy most of the time right? How do you know when to keep trying an when to let it go?

Another thing is you should express to your mate something that is bothering you. Especially if its something that has been bothering you for a while. While you’re expressing yourself make sure they are understanding by paraphrasing what they say

 "So what you're saying is...you aren't getting what you want while in this relationship with me"

That way you both are on the same page. If you think you’re mate is keeping their feelings in you should just ask them and assure them that you are open to listen… don’t wait until its too late….

~Ebony~

Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood :) nahh… its just me! What’s the difference though rigt? ;)

Its a beautiful day in the neighborhood :) nahh… its just me! What’s the difference though rigt? ;)

Picking an artistic hobby.

I have been very bored lately and have decided to pick an artistic hobby.  Problem is there is so much that I want to do, that I dont know where to start.  I’ve been thinking about making jewelry for the simple fact that I absolutely adore earrings and bracelets and I want mine to be different and unique.  I have been looking into that, I even purchased an earring starter kit.  but I havent started yet… why? I have no idea. 

Then I have been thinking about taking up dancing.  I love to express myself and dancing just feels good you know.  I think I want to take some classes.  Mambo, salsa, tango.  Anything really… its a good work out and I would look sexy doing it.  If you guys have any ideas I am always open.

~EbonyQueen~

A little about mE

A true cancer. Mother of two. Lover of all things beautiful and unique. Understanding. Opinionated, but, non-judgemental. Extremely emotional. Empathetic. Listener. Lover of wisdom. Determined to make it. Unsure of my direction. Faithful lover of God. Imperfect. A work in progress…

The purpose of my tumblr is to give my opinion on things. Love, money, women, men, children, music, cars, sports, video games. Although I give good advice I am not a professional I just read A LOT! And I’ve been through more than most people could imagine…I am here only by the grace of God and because of him I am trying to be the best person I can be… I want him to be proud. I feel my purpose is to help people so if you have any questions feel free to ask :)